“But thou shouldest not have looked on the day of thy brother in the day that he became a stranger; neither shouldest thou have rejoiced over the children of Judah in the day of their destruction; neither shouldest thou have spoken proudly in the day of distress.”
My Notes
What Does Obadiah 1:12 Mean?
Obadiah addresses Edom — Israel's brother-nation descended from Esau — and catalogs their sin during Jerusalem's fall with devastating specificity. Eight times in verses 12-14 he says "thou shouldest not have" — al, the Hebrew negative of prohibition. Each one names a specific behavior: looking on, rejoicing, speaking proudly, entering the gate, looting, standing at the crossroads to cut off escapees.
This verse focuses on three: looking (ra'ah — gazing at with satisfaction), rejoicing (samach — celebrating), and speaking proudly (higdil pikh — literally making your mouth big). Edom watched Jerusalem fall and did three things: they stared, they cheered, and they talked trash. Each one escalates: passive observation became active celebration became verbal boasting. The progression from eyes to emotions to mouth traces the exact trajectory of cruelty's development.
The phrase "in the day of thy brother" is the theological indictment. Brother. Not enemy. Not stranger. Achikha — your brother. Edom and Israel share a grandfather (Isaac) and a great-grandfather (Abraham). The enmity between them goes back to the womb (Genesis 25:22-23). But shared blood creates obligation that shared history can't erase. When your brother falls, you don't gloat. You don't cheer. You don't magnify your mouth. You grieve. And Edom did the opposite.
Reflection Questions
- 1.When have you caught yourself watching someone's downfall with satisfaction — even secretly?
- 2.Is there a 'brother' — someone you share history with — whose suffering has given you a sense of vindication?
- 3.How quickly can the progression from looking to rejoicing to boasting happen in your own heart?
- 4.Obadiah says 'thou shouldest not have.' What does it cost you to grieve for someone you're tempted to celebrate against?
Devotional
"Thou shouldest not have looked." That's where it started. Not with an action. With a gaze. Edom stood at a distance and watched Jerusalem burn, and the watching became enjoyment, and the enjoyment became boasting. The progression from spectator to celebrant is one verse long. That's how fast cruelty develops when you let yourself watch someone else's suffering without empathy.
The word "brother" is the one that cuts deepest. This wasn't a stranger falling. It was family. And Edom's response — gazing, rejoicing, talking proudly — is the behavior of someone who has nursed a grudge so long that their brother's destruction tastes like justice. They've been waiting for this. The satisfaction is old. The rivalry goes back to Jacob and Esau, and Edom has been carrying it for centuries. Now, finally, the brother who got the blessing is in ruins. And it feels good.
You know this feeling. The colleague who got the promotion you deserved — and when their project fails, something in you lights up. The ex who hurt you — and when their new relationship implodes, there's a whisper of satisfaction. The person who seemed to have it all — and when they lose it, you feel a flicker of pleasure you'd never admit out loud. Obadiah says: thou shouldest not. Not just "don't do that." You shouldn't have. The gaze that enjoys another's ruin — especially a brother's, especially a family member's, especially someone you share blood with — is seen by God. And it's answered. Edom's judgment occupies the rest of this book.
Commentary
Trusted original commentary from respected historical Bible scholars and theologians.
But thou shouldest not have looked on the day of thy brother,.... The day of his calamity, distress, and destruction, as…
But thou shouldest not - , rather it means, and can only mean , “And look not (i. e., gaze not with pleasure) on the day…
Thou shouldest not have looked - It shows a malevolent heart to rejoice in the miseries of those who have acted unkindly…
When we have read Edom's doom, no less than utter ruin, it is natural to ask, Why, what evil has he done? What is the…
Thou shouldest not have looked … have rejoiced … have spoken rather, look not, rejoice not, speak not. In this verse it…
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