- Bible
- Genesis
- Chapter 20
- Verse 5
“Said he not unto me, She is my sister? and she, even she herself said, He is my brother: in the integrity of my heart and innocency of my hands have I done this.”
My Notes
What Does Genesis 20:5 Mean?
"Said he not unto me, She is my sister? and she, even she herself said, He is my brother: in the integrity of my heart and innocency of my hands have I done this." Abimelech defends himself before God: Abraham told me she was his SISTER. Sarah CONFIRMED it — SHE said 'he is my brother.' I acted in INTEGRITY and INNOCENCE. The defense is LEGITIMATE: Abimelech was DECEIVED by BOTH Abraham AND Sarah. The guilt belongs to the deceivers, not the deceived. The pagan king has more integrity than the patriarch.
The phrase "said he not unto me, She is my sister? and she, even she herself said, He is my brother" (halo hu amar li achoti hi vehigam hi amrah achi hu — did he not say to me 'she is my sister'? And also SHE HERSELF said 'he is my brother') makes the deception BILATERAL: Abraham deceived Abimelech AND Sarah confirmed the deception. BOTH patriarch and matriarch participated in the lie. The 'she herself' (hi) emphasizes Sarah's INDEPENDENT CONFIRMATION — she wasn't just silent while Abraham lied. She ACTIVELY said 'he is my brother.' The deception was a team effort.
The "in the integrity of my heart and innocency of my hands" (betom levavi uveniqqayon kappai — in the completeness/integrity of my heart and in the cleanness of my palms) is the PAGAN KING'S claim to moral purity: the integrity (tom — completeness, wholeness, innocence) of the heart AND the innocence (niqqayon — cleanness, purity) of the hands. The interior (heart) and the exterior (hands) both claim purity. The pagan's defense is BETTER than the patriarch's behavior.
Reflection Questions
- 1.What outsider has shown more integrity than you — and does the comparison humble you?
- 2.What does Sarah CONFIRMING the deception teach about partnership in sin?
- 3.How does the pagan king's defense being LEGITIMATE challenge assumptions about who is righteous?
- 4.What does God CONFIRMING Abimelech's integrity teach about divine assessment crossing religious boundaries?
Devotional
HE told me she was his sister. SHE told me he was her brother. I acted in integrity and innocence. Abimelech — the PAGAN king — defends himself before God with a defense that's ENTIRELY LEGITIMATE. He was DECEIVED by both Abraham AND Sarah. The patriarch lied. The matriarch confirmed. The pagan king was the honest one.
The 'he said, she said' makes the deception BILATERAL: Abraham told Abimelech 'she is my sister' (verse 2). And SARAH HERSELF — independently, personally, in her own voice — confirmed: 'he is my brother.' The deception wasn't Abraham's alone. It was a JOINT operation. Both lied. Both participated. Both deceived the king who acted in good faith.
The 'integrity of my heart and innocency of my hands' is the PAGAN'S moral claim: Abimelech claims COMPLETE integrity — the heart (interior motive) is whole AND the hands (exterior actions) are clean. The pagan king stands before God claiming PURITY — and God CONFIRMS it (verse 6 — 'I know that thou didst this in the integrity of thy heart'). The pagan is RIGHT. God acknowledges the pagan's integrity. The patriarch was wrong.
The IRONY is the passage's sharpest point: the 'father of faith' (Abraham) lies. The pagan king (Abimelech) is innocent. The man of God deceives. The man without God is deceived. The chosen patriarch has LESS integrity in this moment than the unchosen king. The election doesn't guarantee morality. The covenant doesn't prevent deception. The most spiritually privileged person in the story is the most morally compromised.
What 'Abimelech' in your life has more integrity than you — and does the humiliation produce repentance?
Commentary
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Said he not unto me, she is my sister?.... By this it appears, that Abimelech had a personal conversation with Abraham,…
- Abraham in Gerar 2. אבימלך .2 'ǎbı̂ymelek, Abimelekh, “father of the king.” 7. נביא nābı̂y' “prophet,” he who speaks…
In the integrity of my heart, etc. - Had Abimelech any other than honorable views in taking Sarah, he could not have…
It appears by this that God revealed himself by dreams (which evidenced themselves to be divine and supernatural) not…
integrity Heb. "perfectness." Cf. Gen 6:9.
innocency of my hands Cf. Psa 26:6.
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