“Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.”
My Notes
What Does Micah 7:5 Mean?
Micah describes a society so corrupt that no human relationship can be trusted: trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.
Trust ye not in a friend — the word friend (rea) means companion, neighbor, close associate. The warning is not about strangers but about people in your inner circle. When society reaches this level of corruption, even friendship is unreliable.
Put ye not confidence in a guide (alluph) — a guide is an intimate companion, a trusted counselor. The word can also mean a leader or chief. Even those who should be trustworthy — advisors, leaders, mentors — cannot be relied upon. The corruption has reached the advisory class.
Keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom — the most intimate relationship of all: the spouse, the person who shares your bed. Even this person cannot be trusted with your words. The doors of your mouth must be guarded even in the bedroom. When you cannot speak freely with the person lying next to you, the social fabric has completely unraveled.
The verse escalates: friend → guide → spouse. Each circle is closer than the last. Each is compromised. The corruption moves from the social to the advisory to the most intimate. No human relationship is exempt.
Verse 6 continues: the son dishonoureth the father, the daughter riseth up against her mother. Even family bonds are destroyed. Jesus quotes this passage in Matthew 10:35-36 to describe the division that following him will create.
Micah's description is not prescriptive (do not trust anyone) but diagnostic (in this corrupted society, no one can be trusted). The absence of trustworthy relationships is the symptom of a community that has abandoned God (v.7: therefore I will look unto the LORD).
Reflection Questions
- 1.What does the escalation from friend to guide to spouse reveal about how deeply corruption can penetrate relationships?
- 2.How does Micah's description of untrustworthy relationships diagnose a society — and do you see similar symptoms today?
- 3.What does verse 7 ('therefore I will look unto the LORD') teach about where to turn when human relationships fail?
- 4.How does this passage apply to Jesus's quotation in Matthew 10:35-36 about division within families?
Devotional
Trust ye not in a friend. Your friend. The person you confide in, share meals with, call when things go wrong. Micah says: do not trust them. Not because friendship is inherently untrustworthy. Because the society has become so corrupted that even friendships cannot bear the weight of confidence.
Put ye not confidence in a guide. Your counselor. Your mentor. The person whose advice you follow. Do not put confidence there either. The corruption has reached the people who are supposed to be wise, reliable, and trustworthy. The guides cannot be guided themselves.
Keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom. Your spouse. The person closest to you on earth. Guard your words even from them. When the person who shares your bed cannot be trusted with your thoughts, the collapse is total. No relationship is safe.
The escalation is the devastation: friend, guide, spouse. Each closer. Each compromised. The verse describes a world where every human relationship has been hollowed out by corruption — where no one can be trusted because everyone has been compromised.
But verse 7 is the turn: therefore I will look unto the LORD; I will wait for the God of my salvation. When every human relationship fails — when friends betray, guides mislead, and even your closest companion cannot be trusted — there is one relationship that holds. The LORD. The God of your salvation. He is the one you look to when everyone else has proven unreliable.
The verse is not cynicism about people. It is realism about a fallen world — and a redirect toward the only one whose trustworthiness never fails.
Commentary
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