- Bible
- Philippians
- Chapter 4
- Verse 3
“And I intreat thee also, true yokefellow, help those women which laboured with me in the gospel, with Clement also, and with other my fellowlabourers, whose names are in the book of life.”
My Notes
What Does Philippians 4:3 Mean?
Philippians 4:3 is one of the most remarkable affirmations of women in ministry in the New Testament. Paul asks his "true yokefellow" to help specific women "which laboured with me in the gospel." The Greek synēthlēsan moi — "laboured with" — uses athletic imagery: they contended alongside Paul, they fought in the arena with him. This isn't behind-the-scenes support. It's front-line gospel work, shoulder to shoulder with the apostle.
Paul names Clement and mentions "other my fellowlabourers" — synergōn, co-workers — and places the women in the same category. The unnamed women aren't secondary to the named men. They share the same title: fellow laborers. And Paul adds the ultimate commendation: "whose names are in the book of life." Whatever their names were (Euodia and Syntyche from verse 2 are likely the women referenced), they're recorded where it matters most — not in church history, but in heaven.
The appeal to help these women suggests they may be in conflict (4:2 urges them to "be of the same mind"). Even so, Paul doesn't diminish their contribution. He affirms their labor, acknowledges their eternal standing, and asks the community to support them. Conflict doesn't erase calling.
Reflection Questions
- 1.Have you ever felt like your contribution to God's work was secondary or overlooked because of your gender? How does this verse speak to that?
- 2.Paul affirms these women as fellow laborers even while they're in conflict. How does that challenge the idea that disagreement disqualifies someone from ministry?
- 3.Whose names in your life deserve recognition for gospel labor that nobody else has noticed?
- 4.Do you know a woman doing hard kingdom work who needs help right now? What would it look like to be the 'yokefellow' Paul describes?
Devotional
If you've ever wondered whether women have a place in the work of the gospel, Paul answers it here without hesitation: they laboured with me. Not behind me. Not in a separate, lesser category. With me. In the arena. In the fight.
These women weren't making sandwiches for the apostles (not that there's anything wrong with sandwiches). They were contending for the gospel alongside Paul — the same Paul whose letters shaped the entire New Testament. And his assessment of them is the same title he gives his male coworkers: fellow laborers. No asterisk. No qualifier.
The detail that their names are "in the book of life" is Paul's way of settling the question once and for all. Whatever the church remembers or forgets, whatever history records or overlooks, these women are known in heaven. That's the registry that matters. If you've ever done work for God that nobody noticed, nobody credited, nobody remembered — this verse says your name is written where it counts.
And notice: Paul asks for help for these women. They were strong enough to labor in the gospel, and they still needed support. Strength and need aren't contradictions. The most powerful workers in the kingdom are still human, still in conflict sometimes, still in need of a community that shows up for them. If you know a woman who's doing hard kingdom work, this verse is your assignment: go help her.
Commentary
Trusted original commentary from respected historical Bible scholars and theologians.
And I entreat thee also, true yoke fellow,.... Not his wife, as some think (d), for he had none, as appears from Co1…
And I entreat thee also, true yoke-fellow - It is not known to whom the apostle refers here. No name is mentioned, and…
Help those women which labored with me - Both in the Grecian and Asiatic countries women were kept much secluded, and is…
The apostle begins the chapter with exhortations to divers Christian duties.
I. To stedfastness in our Christian…
And I entreat Better, Yea, I request, or beg (as in our polite use of that word).
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