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John 14:23

John 14:23
Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.

My Notes

What Does John 14:23 Mean?

Jesus describes the mutual indwelling that love and obedience produce: Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.

If a man love me, he will keep my words — love is demonstrated through obedience. The order is crucial: love produces keeping. Not: keep my words and I will love you. But: if you love me, you will keep. The obedience flows from love, not the reverse. The keeping (tereo — to guard, to observe, to maintain) is the natural expression of genuine love for Christ. Love that does not produce obedience is not the love Jesus describes.

My words (logous — words, sayings, teachings) — not merely commandments (entole) but words — the full range of Jesus's teaching. The keeping is comprehensive: everything Jesus said.

My Father will love him — the Father's love responds to the person who loves the Son. The love relationship is Trinitarian: the believer loves the Son, and the Father loves the believer in return. The love is not one-directional. It is reciprocal — flowing from believer to Son to Father and back.

We will come unto him — we: Father and Son together. The coming is personal — unto him (pros auton — toward him, to his side). The divine persons come to the individual believer. The movement is from heaven to the human heart. God does not wait for you to ascend. He descends — to you.

And make our abode (mone — dwelling place, permanent residence) with him — abode is the same word used in 14:2 (in my Father's house are many mansions/dwelling places). The Father's house has dwelling places for believers. And now the Father and Son make a dwelling place in the believer. The reciprocity is stunning: God prepares a home for you in heaven, and God makes a home in you on earth. The mutual indwelling — you in God, God in you — is the essence of Christian intimacy.

The verse describes the most intimate relationship available to a human being: the Father and the Son taking up permanent residence inside the person who loves Christ and keeps his words.

Reflection Questions

  • 1.How does love for Christ producing obedience differ from obedience earning Christ's love — and why does the order matter?
  • 2.What does 'we will come unto him' reveal about the personal, directional movement of God toward the believer?
  • 3.What does 'make our abode' — permanent residence, not a visit — communicate about the nature of God's presence in the believer?
  • 4.How does the mutual indwelling (God making a home in you, God preparing a home for you) describe the deepest possible intimacy with God?

Devotional

If a man love me, he will keep my words. The test of love is obedience. Not feeling. Not verbal profession. Obedience — the actual keeping of what Jesus said. If you love him, you keep his words. The keeping is the evidence. The absence of keeping is the absence of love — regardless of what the mouth says.

My Father will love him. The Father's love responds to your love for the Son. The relationship is not one-way. You love Jesus. The Father loves you. The love flows between you and the Trinity — reciprocal, active, personal. The Father does not observe your love for Christ from a distance. He responds to it with love of his own.

We will come unto him. We — Father and Son. Not an angel. Not a representative. The Father and the Son, personally, come to the individual who loves Christ and keeps his words. The most powerful beings in the universe move toward a single human heart. The coming is personal and directional: toward you.

And make our abode with him. Abode — a dwelling place. A home. The Father and Son do not visit. They move in. They take up residence. They make your heart their home — not a temporary stop but a permanent address. The God who prepared a home for you in heaven (14:2) makes a home inside you on earth.

The mutual indwelling is the deepest truth of Christian experience: you in God, God in you. Not metaphor. Reality — the Father and the Son residing in the person who loves Christ enough to keep his words. The intimacy is staggering: the Creator of the universe living inside the creature who loves his Son.

Do you love him? The evidence is in the keeping. And the reward of the keeping is not a distant blessing. It is the closest possible presence: Father and Son, making their home in you.

Commentary

Trusted original commentary from respected historical Bible scholars and theologians.

Gill's ExpositionBaptist theologian, 1697–1771

Jesus answered and said unto him,.... This answer is returned, and these words are spoken, for the further confirmation…

Barnes' NotesPresbyterian pastor, 1798–1870

Will keep my words - See Joh 14:15. We will come to him - We will come to him with the manifestation of pardon, peace of…

Adam ClarkeMethodist theologian, 1762–1832

If a man - Not only my present disciples, but all those who shall believe on me through their word, or that of their…

Matthew HenryNonconformist minister, 1662–1714John 14:18-24

When friends are parting, it is a common request they make to each other, "Pray let us hear from you as often as you…

Cambridge BibleAcademic commentary, 1882–1921

Judas Excluding the genealogies of Christ we have six persons of this name in the N.T.

Jesus answered The answer is…