- Bible
- Leviticus
- Chapter 19
- Verse 18
“Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD.”
My Notes
What Does Leviticus 19:18 Mean?
Leviticus 19:18 contains what Jesus would later call the second greatest commandment: "Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD." The command has three parts — two prohibitions and one positive charge — sealed by God's own name as the authority behind it.
"Thou shalt not avenge" — don't take revenge. Don't repay harm with harm. The instinct to get even, to settle scores, to make someone pay for what they did to you — God says: that's mine, not yours. "Nor bear any grudge" goes deeper. You might refrain from revenge outwardly while nursing the wound internally, replaying the offense, keeping a mental ledger of what was done. God says don't carry that either. The grudge is the seed that revenge grows from, and He wants the root removed, not just the fruit.
Then the positive command: "love thy neighbour as thyself." Not love them more than yourself — the standard is the love you already give yourself. The instinct to care for your own needs, protect your own interests, seek your own good — redirect that energy toward the person next to you. This isn't sentimental. It's structural. It's building your entire relational life on the principle that other people's wellbeing matters as much as your own. "I am the LORD" is the signature that makes this non-negotiable. It's not a suggestion from a moral philosopher. It's a command from the God who defined love by rescuing you.
Reflection Questions
- 1.What grudge are you carrying right now — and what would it actually cost you to release it?
- 2.Is there someone you've refrained from avenging outwardly but are still punishing internally through distance or coldness?
- 3.What would loving your neighbor 'as yourself' look like in a specific relationship this week — giving them the same care you instinctively give yourself?
- 4.How does 'I am the LORD' as the authority behind this command change your motivation for obeying it?
Devotional
Don't avenge. Don't hold a grudge. Love your neighbor as yourself. Three commands that together describe the hardest relational discipline on earth — and they're buried in Leviticus, centuries before Jesus quoted them as the summary of the entire law.
The first two are about letting go. Not avenging means you don't make them pay. Not grudging means you don't even keep the receipt. That's where most of us fail. We might not take revenge — we're too civilized for that. But we keep the grudge. We catalog the offenses. We hold onto the record of wrongs like a savings account we might cash in someday. And God says: drop it. Not because what they did doesn't matter. But because carrying it is destroying you faster than it's punishing them.
Then comes the positive: love your neighbor as yourself. Notice the standard isn't some impossible, superhuman altruism. It's the love you already practice — on yourself. You feed yourself when you're hungry. You rest when you're tired. You defend yourself when you're threatened. You seek your own good instinctively. Now do that for the person next to you. That's the command. Not to become a martyr. To extend to others the same automatic care you give yourself every day. If you did nothing else — if you just treated people the way you treat yourself — you'd fulfill the heart of the law.
Commentary
Trusted original commentary from respected historical Bible scholars and theologians.
Thou shalt not avenge,.... That is, not avenge ourselves on him that has done us an ill thing, but leave it to him to…
We are taught here,
I. To be honest and true in all our dealings, Lev 19:11. God, who has appointed every man's property…
Against hatred and vengeance; instead of cherishing hatred, rebuke thy neighbour (i.e. point out his fault), and persist…
Cross References
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