“Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us.”
My Notes
What Does 2 Thessalonians 3:6 Mean?
Paul issues a command — not a suggestion, not advice — using the highest authority available: "in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ." The stakes are clear before the instruction even lands. "That ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly" — the instruction is communal separation from believers who live in a way that contradicts the faith. "Disorderly" (ataktos) is a military term meaning out of rank, undisciplined, refusing to follow formation. The disorderly brother isn't sinning spectacularly. He's refusing to walk in step.
"And not after the tradition which he received of us" — the "tradition" (paradosis) is the apostolic teaching and pattern of life that Paul delivered to the Thessalonians. It's not human tradition in the negative sense. It's the authoritative instruction of the apostles — both doctrinal and behavioral. The disorderly brother received the teaching. He knows the standard. He's choosing to ignore it.
The context (vv. 7-12) reveals the specific issue: some Thessalonians had stopped working, possibly because they expected Christ's imminent return. They were idle, meddlesome, and dependent on others' generosity while contributing nothing. Paul's response isn't pastoral patience. It's communal consequence: withdraw. Not excommunicate permanently. Not condemn. But create enough relational distance that the person feels the weight of their choices.
Reflection Questions
- 1.Is there someone in your life who is 'walking disorderly' — living in contradiction to what they know — and you've been avoiding the boundary? What's stopping you?
- 2.Paul distinguishes between condemning someone and withdrawing from them. What's the difference — and how do you practice the latter with love?
- 3.The disorderly person had 'received' the teaching. How does deliberate disobedience differ from ignorance, and should the church respond differently?
- 4.Where have you confused enabling someone with loving them? What boundary needs to be set?
Devotional
Paul doesn't tell the church to have a meeting about it. He tells them to withdraw.
The disorderly brother isn't committing a scandalous sin. He's just refusing to live in step with what he was taught. He received the tradition — the apostolic teaching about how to live — and he's ignoring it. Walking out of rank. Doing his own thing. And Paul says: create distance. Not to punish. To wake him up.
This is one of the most neglected instructions in the New Testament, because modern churches are terrified of anything that looks like judgment. But Paul isn't describing judgment. He's describing boundaries. The community has a standard — not a legalistic code, but the pattern of life the apostles taught. And when someone deliberately walks outside that pattern, the community's response isn't to pretend everything's fine. It's to withdraw enough that the person notices.
The specific issue here was idleness — people who stopped working and started meddling (v. 11). They were eating other people's food, taking up other people's time, and contributing nothing. And the church was enabling it by not setting a boundary. Paul says: stop. The kindest thing you can do for the disorderly person is let them feel the natural consequence of their choices.
This applies far beyond laziness. Whenever someone in your community is living in direct contradiction to what they know — when they've received the teaching and chosen to ignore it — love isn't pretending you don't notice. Love is the boundary that says: I care about you too much to let this continue without consequence.
Commentary
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